| Father | Male John Gay |
| Born | 8 Jul 1699 | Dedham, Norfolk County, Massachusetts |
| Died | 6 Aug 1792 | Sharon, Litchfield County, Connecticut |
| Buried | ||
| Married | 7 Dec 1721 | Lebanon, New London County, Connecticut |
| Father | John Gay | F3036 Group Sheet | |
| Mother | Mary Fisher | F3036 Group Sheet | |
| Child 1 | Male Lt. Col. Ebenezer Gay, Sr. |
| Born | 26 Dec 1725 | |
| Died | Unknown | |
| Buried | ||
| Spouse | Elizabeth Fairbanks | F4623 | |
| Married | ||